Recommendation Letters for College: The How-To
How to get the rec letters that actually impress admissions officers.
Recommendation letters can be game-changers in your college application. They show colleges who you are beyond numbers. So, how do you make sure you get a letter that truly reflects your strengths? Here’s a quick, no-fluff guide to getting the best recommendation letters possible.
Why Recommendation Letters Matter
Think of recommendation letters as mini-interviews you don’t have to attend. Teachers or mentors get to vouch for your character, work ethic, and potential. In short, they give colleges a reason to pick you.
Step 1: Choose the Right Person
The best letters come from people who actually know you. Here’s who to ask:
- Teachers in Subjects You Love: Especially ones related to your major or where you shined.
- Extracurricular Advisors: Coaches, club advisors, or bosses who know the real you beyond the classroom.
- Junior/Senior Year Teachers: They’ve seen you tackle higher-level work and probably know you better than teachers from earlier years.
Step 2: Give Them Key Details
Once they agree, make it easy for them to write a good letter. Here’s what to share:
- A Resume or List of Your Accomplishments: Include your academic and extracurricular highlights.
- A Quick Note on Your Goals: Just a sentence or two about your major or career interests.
- The Deadlines: Make sure they know when each letter is due, especially if there are different dates.
Step 3: Mention What You’d Like Highlighted
It’s okay to suggest a few traits or achievements you’d like included, like your leadership skills or resilience. Just keep it light and let them take it from there.
Step 4: Follow Up
Two weeks before the deadline, send a polite reminder. Once they’ve submitted, thank them! A handwritten note or a quick email goes a long way.
Step 5: Understand FERPA
Most applications ask if you’ll waive your FERPA rights to read your letters. Waiving your rights signals to colleges that you trust your recommenders and haven’t edited the letters. Unless there’s a reason not to, go ahead and check the box.
TLDR: Pick people who know you and help them with the details. With a little planning, you’ll get recommendation letters that make you shine.
- Ask Early: Give plenty of time for a thoughtful letter.
- Choose People Who Know You Well: A personalized letter always beats a generic one.
- Be Kind and Patient: Teachers and mentors have busy schedules.
- Send a Follow-Up: A quick reminder helps keep things on track.
And if you’re looking for extra help organizing and managing your recommendation letters, check out ESAI’s Letter of Rec Request Tool! It’s designed to keep you on top of deadlines, guide you in crafting requests, and make the whole process smoother—giving you one less thing to stress about in your college application journey.